State of the blog: I’m still alive!
Over the past little while I’ve had a big case of the whatevers, in the fact that I have had not much drive to work on my blog. However, thanks to the friendly pestering of some fellow bloggers, I’ve decided to try to get back into the swing of things.
Also, I’ve had a little something – or someone – that has kept me busy for the past week.
Meet The Spawnling, born last Saturday. She is absolutely adorable and is totally in control of our house already. She’s going to have her daddy wrapped around her pinky so very quickly, I’m sure.
Go into your image folder, open the sixth sub-folder and choose the sixth image. Show the image, and share some thoughts about it. Challenge six new bloggers, and link to them.
Fannon at Dwarven Battle Medic started to complicate things a bit by making it more than just one folder, which Aidrana from Miss Pew Pew followed – and since they bugged me, and I want to write, you get more for your non-spent money!
1 – World of Warcraft (852 pictures total)
I used to have more pictures, but unfortunately after reformatting a few times there were some that had been lost. Thankfully this one was saved, which was my very first screenshot of my main character. At the time his name was Asok (after the Dilbert character), and is now Korath – the closest I can get to my usual name as I could on the Thrall server.
As you can see, he is very much a baby character. This was during Burning Crusade when I was leveling up with my wife’s new character, as she had just recently bought WoW and was leveling her way through it. Back in the day, you had to go all the way to Silvermoon just to train Jewelcrafting for the Horde, as you had to go to Exodar for the Alliance. Those days sucked.
2 – Muse Concert (6 pictures total)
Unfortunately, these were very bad pictures taken with my old mobile phone. Thankfully it is now dead, and I have a new fancy iPhone 4S to replace it. However, amazingly enough the pictures are somewhat recognizable. Muse is my favourite band, and my wife and I were fortunate enough to see them in March 2010.
3 – Blog Stuff (144 pictures total)
What I do is whenever I have anything specifically for the blog from something else, I would usually save a copy of it in my Blog folder, renamed for whatever purpose. However, in this case since I’m using something that I’ve already done… then I don’t bother.
I have only a few sub-folders: one specifically for third party images, so I know which ones are mine and which ones are not; one for my Screenshots of the Week (which is definitely not weekly anymore); and a sub-folder of the SSOTW where I move over the images that I have used.
Why hello, Archaeology survey tool from my Archaeology 101 guide.
4 and 5 – Third Party and Screenshots of the Week (52 pictures total)
As mentioned above, these are just pictures from my separate sub-folders.
Howling Fjord is still one of my favourite zones for many reasons. It was one of our first tastes of Wrath of the Lich King, and it really sets the tone for this Northern land. Living in Canada, I’m fortunate enough to see the real Aurora Borealis from time to time, and it never gets old. I just love it so very much.
The Verming concept art was one that just made me laugh so very much. We were watching the BlizzCon live stream this year, and they had this during the Mists of Pandaria preview panel. I can’t wait to kill these guys, as I’m pretty sure that they’re the new kobolds or murlocs and we’ll hate them soon enough.
6 – The Spawn/The Spawnling (1964 pictures total)
What parent doesn’t like to take pictures of their kids? If anyone follows me on Twitter, they’ll know that I refer to my kids as The Spawn and the new one as The Spawnling. I’m a bit paranoid so I prefer not to use their real names, as Fannon from Dwarven Battle Medic frequently uses the same idea with the Dwarfling.
The Spawn is two and a half years old, and The Spawnling is a week old now. We have our hands full with them, but as I’ve said many times – being a Dad is the best job in the world.
This picture happened to turn out really well. I was trying to get a picture of The Spawn with my iPhone, and of course he was running around. I figured I’d see what happens, and it ended up being one of my favourite pictures.
Bonus – Too much cute to handle
It’s quite handy having a phone to capture some great moments. Of course, when The Spawnling was first born we weren’t sure how The Spawn would react. Thankfully, he’s been an amazing big brother – we just really hope that it continues.
The last part of the challenge was to tag six other bloggers to do the same thing. Unfortunately, most of the bloggers that I know have already done this challenge, so I’m going to call out a fellow Band of Thorns member to get off his butt and update his blog. Sharden of 15 Minutes of WoW – I hereby challenge you!
Thanks to my blogger friends, I should be back into the swing of things. With having two children under three in the house now, updates will most definitely not be as consistent as I would like, but I will try to keep things going as much as possible.
Here’s to a new chapter, I hope that it turns out to be as good on paper as it is in my head.
A little while ago, something happened that caused me quite a bit of frustration. In essence: I love to raid, but I was denied the chance to raid. I was mad at first, but after having the chance to reflect upon it I have some thoughts to share.
Being in a guild comes with rules attached. This is even more important for guilds who raid, as there are the intricacies of determining who gets loot, discipline for people being jerkfaces, attendance issues, among other things. What is the rule for who gets to raid?
Some back story to begin with, as my situation is a bit weird. I’ve mentioned before that I can’t raid as much as I used to, due to real life circumstances. I am married to a wonderful woman and have a great son. Unfortunately I don’t make enough money to support us all by myself, so my wife has to work part-time on weekends and some evenings. As it happens one of the nights she usually works is a raid night, and the other raid night is one where I work late every second week. Therefore, due to our work schedules there have been many times where I have been unable to raid because of having to look after our son or because I’ve been working.
Prior to The Spawn arriving, I was a regular raider. From Vanilla all the way through Wrath, I was there for a majority of our guild’s raids, so I have good experience. I’ve been in the guild since it was formed, so I have tenure. Plus, I enjoy raiding as it’s my version of a “guy’s night out” or poker night.
It happened that this certain Friday, I wasn’t working late and had been given the all clear to sign up for the raid. We’re doing 10-man raiding right now and eleven people had signed up – since I’m a DPS class, my role is always one that’s fought over. This was my first time being able to sign up for a raid in over a month, but I had experienced most of the content in the expansion thus far. The night’s agenda was to go to Throne of the Four Winds and work on Al’Akir, as he’s the last boss we need for the Guild Glory of the Raider achievement.
I logged on, asking if I was going to be able to raid that night. The decision was made to have myself and another DPS do a /roll with the low roller sitting the night. Ultimately, mine was the low roll and I was out. To say I was mad was an understatement.
The arguments came to my mind very easily: I’ve been a member of the guild for years! If it wasn’t for my situation, I would have been there for every raid! I deserve equal chances to participate in the raid! Other people go to every raid, but I have the rare chance! Why do they go but I get shut out?
Almost a week later, I’ve looked back and realized that the decision was made properly. I wish that it was made ahead of time so I would have known, but that’s beside the point. It was a progression raid, and the people who have worked at the content for weeks deserve the chance to get a guild-first downing of a new boss.
There needs to be a balance for inclusion of all members who want to raid. I’m not suggesting that just because you’re a warm body means that you should go, but given a chance. If the raid agenda was to do content that was being farmed, my anger would have been justified. Since it was a progression night, it was not my place to take the spot of someone who has been there all the time.
Who gets to raid?
This is the core of the problem. When I was an officer back in Burning Crusade, we were getting together people for a Gruul’s Lair run, and we were short one DPS. We had a player log on, one who wasn’t around very often, but was raid ready. They joined the raid, and after killing Gruul we had the Dragonspine Trophy drop – for the first (and eventually only) time of the expansion for us. At the time, our loot policy was to /roll and high roll wins. This player ended up getting the highest roll… and quit the game a week later. (Loot rules are a whole different ball of wax)
Because of the above reason, there is definitely a reason to put the proper people in a raid. Whereas I may be someone who knows what to do, I truthfully didn’t deserve to take the spot on that night.
Obviously there are times when it’s not possible to be picky. If there’s only 10 people on who can raid, you have your raid. Depending on the skill and gear levels of the people involved, that will determine what will happen that night. Progression may not be possible, but it will likely be possible to bring up other people to the point of being able to progress later.
If there’s 15 people who want to raid, there are going to be five people who will have to do something else. Should the plan be to progress through raid content, the obvious choice is the people who are ready for the content.
However, there must be a chance given to people who want to raid. It’s just the timing that needs to be decided on. Firm communication between guild leadership and the members is key. If the plan is to do progression, make sure people know that preference will be given to those who are geared and ready for the fight. For farm nights, some preference should be given to people who need to gear up.
All of this must be done within reason. A whole raid full of people who need to gear up won’t go very far in a raid. I’m not saying that those who can’t make every raid must be given a spot on farm nights, but to take their situation into account.
I love to raid, as it’s something that I enjoy doing with the friends that I have made through World of Warcraft. My schedule limits the times that I can raid, because of the schedule my guild has established.
I was wrong to have been upset at being sat out for a progression night. Hopefully things will work out and I’ll be able to raid again soon. I’m looking at you, people who set my wife’s schedule. /glare
In the meantime there are PuG raids that I could join, there are Zandalari heroics, and upcoming single player content in 4.2 that could make me pass the time. Lots of things to do, and hopefully raiding with my guild will be one of those things again in the future.
I’ve never been in a bowling league. I’ve never had a poker night with buddies. I was in a curling league for a year…
A former officer of our guild gave me this great analogy: gaming guilds and raiding are very much like a sports league or games night. They both are scheduled activities with a set group of people, all for a common goal of having fun and achieving something. Whether that goal is bowling or raiding, the ideals behind the scenes are the same.
I can’t stress this enough: fun first. If you’re not having fun, why bother going? When something gets to the point where you dread doing it, it’s time to change something. Going through a few nights of no progression in a raid? Step back and see what the atmosphere is like. Are people yelling at each other? People stressed out over minute details? Something needs to change.
Now, I’m not suggesting that there be no order to a raid night. If people are doing whatever they want and not caring about the other 9 or 24 people who are present, that’s unacceptable. But at the same time, laugh a little! During our Molten Core days, we had the “Arch of Jamaxsum” – right before Lucifron there was a tunnel to go through with a ton of flame imps and elementals. Once in Lucifron’s room, the imps would aggro if you got too close to the entrance of the tunnel since they had such a large aggro range. More often than not, it was Jamaxsum who would pull them in during a fight and wipe the raid. Also more often than not, we would all laugh and /roll for blame.
Everything in moderation: there’s a time and place for lots of fun, as well as being serious. If you’re learning a new fight and something happens that shouldn’t happen, make sure that you learn from it. If you wipe the raid in the Lich King fight because you didn’t move out of Defile, you need a swift kick to the head and an explanation of how the mechanic works – not someone continually yelling and screaming at you. If you repeat the same thing over and over again, that’s a different story.
Next, be serious when it comes to raid nights and real life. In my previous post I mentioned having a good balance between real life and gaming, and this is one of the biggest parts that people can have problems with. Come to an understanding with your significant other or family, and treat it as you would for a night you would go out and play sports. If you sign up for a raid, you commit to it. If you know you can’t make it, let someone know so that a replacement can be found. Small guilds can really suffer from this, since there could be a smaller group of people to choose from.
If you were in a sports league and couldn’t make it to a game, would you just not show up or would you call someone to let them know? Yes, I know that a WoW raid isn’t really the same thing since you don’t sign up for a whole season of raiding at a time. At the same time, there are other people who are relying on you being there to fill a spot if you’ve committed to it.
Finally, treat the team captains with respect. The guild master, officer(s), and raid leader(s) of a guild do a lot. They have to make sure that there is the right class balance so the right abilities are all present, they have to make sure that people actually show up for the raid, and they have to keep things moving along through the event. They also have to be the disciplinary force from time to time as well. If this happens, remember that by being in the guild you accept them as the people who are authorized to do what needs to be done.
If there is a problem, bring it up to the people who need to know. In most guilds, I’d say that the normal chain of communication for problems with a raid would be to go to the raid leader first, then officers, then guild master. More than likely, if there’s a problem there wouldn’t be just one person who would say something. If there is only one voice, maybe that person just caught it before others.
All in all, just remember the golden rule (of raiding): treat others as you want to be treated. Treat others with respect, if you sign up for a raid and can’t make it be sure to tell someone, and try to have fun!
I don’t know what came over me last night. I was fooling around with my iPod touch while being bored, and signed up for a WordPress account. I’m hoping that I can actually get this blog going, and most importantly stick with it.
Hopefully, this blog will be about a bit of everything. World of Warcraft, other gaming, music, more than likely my family will pop up, and of course the random rant.
Welcome to my blog, hopefully it’ll get better over time.